Doing Less Is Self Care: How Skipping Laundry Boosts Your Mental Health

Science-backed insights on how outsourcing laundry reduces stress, improves sleep, and creates space for real self-care. Discover why doing less is better for your mental health.

By The Foam Team Category: Lifestyle
**WHY WE'RE TALKING ABOUT THIS** Every week we hear the same confession: "Laundry is the chore that never ends. When I'm finally done, I'm too tired to enjoy the weekend." After moving more than a million pounds of laundry out of Salt Lake City homes, we have seen what happens when people reclaim those hours. Hint: your brain loves an empty hamper. ## 1. THE PSYCHOLOGY OF "UNDONE" CHORES
Mental-Load Trigger What It Does to Your Brain
Open loops (unfinished tasks) Raises cortisol and keeps the mind in alert mode
Decision fatigue (warm wash or cold) Lowers willpower by evening, leading to quick-fix dinners
Interrupt cycles (swap washer to dryer) Breaks focus and slashes deep-work productivity
Dr. Alia Crum at Stanford calls it low-grade cognitive inflammation. One chore is fine, but repeated micro-decisions spike stress hormones the same way a looming deadline does. ## 2. LAUNDRY'S HIDDEN COST ON WELLNESS ### Sleep Debt Late-night folding trims twenty to thirty minutes off pillow time. Compound that over a week and you are running a sleep deficit. ### Relationship Micro-Stress Forty-three percent of couples cite housework as a recurring argument, and laundry tops the list. ### Weekend Crowding Five hours per household each week equals one entire Saturday afternoon that never becomes a Wasatch hike, a nap, or an overdue call to Mom. ## 3. THE SELF CARE WINS OF OUTSOURCING
Self-Care Pillar How Skipping Laundry Helps
Restorative Rest One extra hour of sleep can drop cortisol 15 percent
Movement Customers say a Foam pickup frees a 30-minute jog or yoga flow
Social Connection Free Sunday opens space for brunch, not sorting socks
Mental Clarity Fewer open loops mean lower baseline anxiety and sharper focus
"Foam gives me a real weekend. I traded detergent runs for trail runs and my stress headaches vanished." —Megan C., Sugar House ## 4. FOAM AND THE FOUR STEP SELF CARE LOOP ### Remove friction Schedule one pickup. The chore leaves your calendar. ### Replace with intention Block the freed hours for something restorative: sleep, play, therapy, or simply doing nothing. ### Repeat weekly Self care is easier when it shows up automatically. A standing Foam route locks in protected time. ### See the gains Your customer portal displays hours saved. Watching that number climb reinforces the habit. ## 5. "BUT I CAN DO IT MYSELF" AND OTHER MYTHS
Myth Reality
It only takes a couple loads The average is four to five hours including folding and putting away
It saves money Utilities, detergent, machine wear, and your time often exceed Foam's flat rate
It's my responsibility Healthy boundaries include delegating low value tasks
Self care is not just spa days or therapy. Sometimes it is choosing not to spend mental energy on chores that drain you. ## HOW TO MAKE THE SWITCH IN THREE SIMPLE STEPS - Pick a plan: weekly subscription or flexible on-demand pickups. - Fill the Foam bag with everything from towels to tees. - Get it back the same day or the next day, folded tighter than a retail shelf. That is it. No open loops. No midnight dryer alarms. --- ## Related Reading - [Why We Hate Laundry (And You Should Too)](/posts/why-we-hate-laundry-salt-lake-city-pickup-delivery) - [You'll Pay $25 for DoorDash. Why Not for Your Laundry?](/posts/pay-25-doordash-why-not-laundry-salt-lake-city-professionals) - [Laundry Delivery vs. In-Unit Washer: Which Saves More?](/posts/laundry-delivery-vs-in-unit-washer-save-time-money-salt-lake-city) Reclaim your time at [foamlaundry.co](https://foamlaundry.co).

Frequently Asked Questions

How does skipping laundry actually improve mental health?

Skipping laundry reduces decision fatigue, eliminates a repetitive weekly task that causes stress, and frees up 2-3 hours per week for activities that genuinely improve wellbeing like exercise, socializing, or rest. Studies show that reducing mundane household tasks decreases cortisol levels and improves overall life satisfaction.

Is using a laundry service really self-care or just laziness?

Using a laundry service is strategic self-care, not laziness. Self-care means protecting your time and energy for things that matter. Just like meal delivery or hiring a house cleaner, outsourcing laundry is about making intentional choices that support your mental health and productivity.

How much time does the average person spend doing laundry?

The average person spends 2-3 hours per week on laundry when you include sorting, washing, drying, folding, and putting away clothes. That totals 100-150 hours per year, equivalent to nearly four full work weeks spent on a repetitive chore.

What should I do with the free time I gain from not doing laundry?

Use your reclaimed time for activities that genuinely improve mental health: exercise, spending time with loved ones, pursuing hobbies, getting extra sleep, practicing mindfulness, or simply having unscheduled downtime. The key is choosing activities that energize you rather than drain you.

Can outsourcing tasks like laundry actually reduce burnout?

Yes, research shows that outsourcing repetitive household tasks significantly reduces burnout, especially for working professionals and parents. By eliminating low-value tasks, you create mental space for rest and activities that bring joy, which are essential for preventing burnout.